Exactly how feelings translate into facial expression is a mystery science is only beginning to understand. However, we all can appreciate the power of facial expression. We are drawn to a warm smile, but feel apprehension toward a bitter scowl. Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship and the highest percentage of such communication is nonverbal. Such nonverbal communication includes, among other things, facial expression. As Christians, we must remember that communicating a positive image to the world requires more than just language—it also includes a face etched with the love, compassion, and joy of Jesus Christ. While we may not be able to control the looks with which we were born, we do have some power to regulate the expressions that adorn our faces.

But, sometimes a happy face seems out of place. There are times when, in spite of all our best efforts, we just cannot maintain a genuine smile. Job said, “I will leave off my sad countenance and be cheerful” (Job 9:27). Yet, because of the pain and sorrow associated with his circumstances, he could not maintain a happy disposition. When Cain was sad about his rejected offering, God told him to do what was right and his countenance would be lifted up (Gen. 4:5-7). His sin had to be mastered before he could again experience the joy of worshipping God in an acceptable manner. When the Rich Young Ruler heard Christ’s demands for self-sacrifice, his “face fell, and he went away grieved…” (Lk. 9:51). A smile would not have been appropriate in light of his refusal to count the cost of discipleship. James touched on godly sorrow when he told his readers to “be miserable and mourn and weep; let your laughter be turned into mourning and your joy to gloom” (Jas. 4:9). And so, we see that a smile is not always possible or appropriate.

However, we should also keep in mind that we are ultimately responsible for the expressions on our faces. Isaiah condemned the rebellious people of Jerusalem and Judah saying that both their speech and their actions were against the Lord. Then he added these words: “The expression of their faces bears witness against them…” (Is. 3:8-9). Whether it was a proud look or a look of shameless defiance, they were responsible for their facial expressions. Why? Because what was on their face revealed what was in their hearts. In this case, it was altogether a negative thing. But the opposite is also true as is affirmed by Solomon who said “A joyful heart makes a cheerful face…” (Prov. 15:13). Herein lies the key to a happy countenance: Fill your heart with spiritual treasures. Let your mind dwell on things that are good and positive and noble (Ph. 4:8). In this way, God will bless your life and, who knows, one day, with David, you may praise God as “the help of [your] countenance” (Ps. 42:11; 43:5).

— Glen Elliott —